Social Media sites are exploding everywhere on the web, targeting every aspect of our lives.  It stands to reason that eventually we'll get tired of trying cram our kink lives in to inappropriate, and increasingly unfriendly, sites like Facebook or the slow-death-spiral MySpace.

Launched in 2008, FetLife is currently the front leader in the kinky social media space with a stated subscriber base of almost 800 thousand users. But, things change über fast in the digital world and I'm sure there are a dozen programmers coding up a storm trying to capture some of the net traffic for themselves.

One of the lastest ventures to make it out of the box and onto your computer is  We spoke with site creator and administrator, TJ Ayres about the site and the challenges of creating a kinky social outlet.

Check out part one of the interview after the jump.

TJ Ayres - Kink Arena