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01/26/2010

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Woodja

I think the question of whether leather titles are still relevant may indirectly beg the question “what is the role of a leather title holder?”

Many have argued that we need to return to the role of the leather title holder as promoting leather sex—getting guys hard and horny for leather sex (see Mike Gerle’s “Leather Carpetbaggers” on here). Likewise, there has been discussion elsewhere about how leather title holders should be proficient in kinky sex techniques. In Alex Lindsay’s comment on Mike’s posting he stated that when he won his first title part of his intent was to “help provide visibility for the various kink-related clubs and organizations.” So, part of the role at least seems to be generating interest in the leather community.

As Bill points out, the initial purpose of many of our titles was to make money for the producers or sponsors. But it seems that the current predominant role of the leather title is to raise money for charities. In “Competing or Campaigning?” on here the question was raised about whether or not we do a disservice by trying to make leaders by pushing people through the title holder system (meat grinder style?). I think that question in turn begs the question of “what is a leather leader?”

I think gathering community members together to raise thousands of dollars for a charity can be an act of leadership—few raise that money single-handedly. Producing an event can also serve the purpose of bringing people together and into the bars or play spaces—where much of our community functions. I am in a club that holds a fundraiser every year that has started to regularly raise over $10,000 yearly for various organizations. The event brings out guys that we don’t see in the bar the rest of the year. It takes the entire club to pull this off. I classify this as leather leadership.

There is another club here that recently held a conference in which they had presentations on and demonstrations of various kinky sex acts (e.g., figging, electrostim play, etc.).They also had a play party associated with the event. There were a number of people that made this event happen. To the best of my knowledge the event did not raise money for anything other than the club itself. I consider this leather leadership as well.

Perhaps what I am saying is that I think what makes a leather leader is someone who demonstrates the ability to bring people together for a purpose within the leather community. I think this includes both raising money for a charity as well as bringing people together for leathersex education and for leathersex itself. Since becoming active in the leather community I have been more involved in the fundraising side of the leadership dichotomy than the promotion of leather sex side. But I have consistently tried to make the events that I produce have a distinct appeal to leathermen and be eroticized, such as Daddy/boy auctions and an erotic art and object auction. The event my club puts on has a strong erotic element as well.

I would like to think the role of a leather title holder is to be a leader—in either of the versions I depicted—hopefully continuing beyond the title year. Rather than forsake the whole title holder system or rejecting it as not truly part of the leather community, perhaps we should focus on integrating an emphasis on eroticizing leathersex into whatever version of leadership our title holders choose. Perhaps the question we should be asking our contestants is “how do you plan on generating erotic interest in the leather community with how you use your title?”

Woodja
Mr. Prime Choice Texas 2009
Mr. Lonestar 21

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